Wiebelt & Associates - Oklahoma City, OK

I can't recommend Stacey. In my experience she is very biased to mothers. She appears to have issues with men and fathers in general. She has not been active in my case for over 2 yrs. Made no proactive measures. She doesn't communicate with me, yet clearly communicates with the mother one on one. She was ordered to have a plan. Which really in the end. Was just her way of trying to impose what she wanted which was nothing short of what felt like a Chinese reprogramming camp. Her counselor Pam Wright was her reporter for her and really their relationship was inappropriate. I did everything they asked and it was never good enough she had me repeat the same process three times over 2 yrs. And to this day I do not understand why they don't want me to see my kids I have lost 4 yrs and its so painful! This lady could care less about destroying families. I have solid evidence yet Stacey nor anyone cared to even listen to the facts. I shared sexual concerns and gave Stacey the letter from my son in his own handwriting. Stacey did nothing. It's all subjective and even though my kids are being coached and alienated from me by their mother. Stacey ignored it all and made her mind up on the first visit to my home. Where she made it very clear at her office later where she berated me in front my own attorney and counselor. That I was a terrible person for telling her that I don't allow food or drinks in my living room. Stacey came into my house was rude and unprofessional from the start. My wife had a headache and was not feeling good. Stacey made it clear we are terrible for not giving her a standing welcoming party as she entered our home. Yet Stacey never was professional really ignored just us. She didn't try to talk with the adults. She then walked around my house never asked or was polite in explaining what she is there to do. We had no idea what to expect but heard great things! I realize after the fact they consider this is normal. But to be this unprofessional to people paying your salary. Disrespecting them in their own home. Is stressful and traumatic. And the flouting of her authority and posturing/ego was very disturbing! She goes into my room never asked and my Son made it clear to her "we are not allowed in here". But just helped herself right in inspected my room. With my kids following her going around even walked into my kitchen. Grabs a snake and a drink for my son without any conversation with us like we were not there. We were shocked at the blatant disregard for any respect for our home. She acted like she was free to do what she pleased. She victim shamed us every since then. And even after I was granted an emergency by the courts and it was in place for sometime. She took a wrecking ball to it all disregarded my children's best interest. And took my visitation away and continued to take away and have zero respect for my rights. She is all that is wrong with the system. Terrible GAL! Most times the Judge listened to her recommendations without ANY proof or questions to hold her accountable. And Stacey knows this all to well. In my custody case, blatant baise for the mother. And not accountability for the so called professionals period... Its a crap show there is no justice at this time. But I am not done fighting I love my kids and want to be in their life. Despite me asking what I did and how to improve and work past that. I was met with "Well what do you have to say for yourself what could you have done better?" She was more interested digging and fishing up anything on me and my wife. Which sadly this whole thing is rooted in the fact that my ex weaponizing my son to sow division and problems in my marriage. Yet somehow Stacey ironically seemed to perpetrated the will of my ex.